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How to Forgive People Who Hurt You

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Rabbi YY Jacobson

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it was parashat which is soon coming up just in three weeks this summer he was in montreal at home in canada and a special guest came to montreal that shabbat this was harav hagon riphner cutler of blessed memory he was the russia shiva of bmg the famous yeshiva in lakewood new jersey of cutler rip schneider cutler oh thank you very much thank you and he said friday night they had what's called an oink shabbat khasid call it a butter some people call it akumsits or ismirus you know they came together in a home they were eating a little bit drinking a little bit saying enjoying words of torah singing songs connecting and the cutler was sitting at the head of the table and that week something happened in montreal what happened the city of montreal did not have yet the strong infrastructure financially and socially that it has today barakasha and there was still it was a smaller community trying to build itself up and the smarter community in montreal wanted to build a jewish day school but they didn't have enough money so they went to the ashkenazim the ashkenazi community and they asked them if they could help them financially with funding the school and ashkenazim told us fired them listen ma la nu la tsara hazois we have our own problems we don't have enough money we have our own deficit we have our own headaches the last thing that we are supposed to do now is get into a whole new headache and a new mess trying to help your schools you know you take care of yourselves and let us take care of ourselves that was the message that they gave so somebody asked naya cutler at the friday night shabbat what his opinion about this was

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