Rabbi Binyamin Yuhanan - Parenting Part 1

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Binyamin Yuhanan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] do [Music] good evening today are starting the new good evening today are starting the new series on parenting based on the book of rav yakovson this is the book in english it was translated only a couple years ago but it has been available in hebrew for many many years rav jakobson is a a known and very successful means educator in israel and he has given a lot of lectures a lot of guidance to many parents and teachers and parents and teachers and hashem now we have opportunity to learn his method and his method is based in large part on rav walbe the great masjid who wrote a leisure who is the the leader of many generations and um he is um an authority also on and rave authority also on and rave wrote a a great little book called planting and building so planting and building is a brief exposition and spear the child again this is the book spare the child it's available in stores now or online is a more detailed explanation of the system so i have to so i have to start by saying that of course people ask what is the proper time to learn about hinok and our sages answer that the the way you teach your children the way you educate your children is by first making yourself a better person yourself a better person when when a person makes himself educated and what i mean educated means becoming someone who can make proper moral choices someone who is in control of his own character someone who is in control of his own desires passions only then we can educate our children properly as our

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1. 0:00[Music] do [Music] good evening today are starting the new…
2. 4:40fixing your character working on your desires will guarantee that your child will be more successful…
3. 9:53were not scared of their children everyone knew that the older you are the more you…
4. 14:36improve your uh your skills it will not interfere with it once the educator or the…
5. 19:46and appreciates and just like an engineer even though he has a grand plan and blueprints…
6. 24:33closer it distanced them even more and maybe some of you will understand what i'm talking…
7. 29:47with live and relevant illustrations now one point of clarification the book includes many real life…
8. 34:28important idea that a parent must also use the concept of confidentiality when dealing with the…
9. 39:41a better direction and you give him tools to succeed with his innate qualities that will…
10. 44:22and number two what is anything that causes your children to desire spiritual life and anything…

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