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it it ends up sinking people much much deeper uh emotionally people are very focused on success did I succeed did I not succeed which seems like a pretty reasonable place to be but it it's true in the world of pornography which I won't go into extensively right now that when people are in that mindset you know very definitively of I'm succeeding or I'm failing it it ends up sinking people much much deeper uh emotionally but also much much deeper uh emotionally but also practically in terms of their ability to to handle it. But it's even true on the you know I don't know lighter level or whatever of of the shmear I am in the street and the like which is my what I what I propose is is people taking an approach um which is much less about success and much more about being uh in the game. >> Sure. Uh delighted to be back and ashikov again for bringing uh the world of psychology into the world of uh Torah and Torah living really important. So uh there's many many things that could be said. I I think on a very global uh level, anything that helps our mental health uh help us be in a better psychological state will end up helping us with things like that's what we're primarily talking that's what we're primarily talking about here. Partially because we're just in a calmer state and we can do anything better. uh and partially because in all these realms that relate to uh that that relate to and also relate to pornography which I think people will talk not so much about today or but um it is related to psychological stuff. People tend to associate it just with tya and drives. But a lot of the push to look and see
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