Dr Lieberman Transforing Relationships #10

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The opening of this shiur, in Chazaq Organization’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

was a was a direct quote from a previous class so someone said last week dr lieberman said to provide someone we care about with self-esteem tell them sincerely how much they mean to you and even if they push back ultimately they will absorb the message and move forward so that was the quote okay so so um so i was agonizing today this is the person that versus email is saying i was agonizing today over the right course of action to take with my quote unquote on his own derrick team this week he declined to join the chavez table should i have made a cop should i made a comment can i can i use your quote from last week to my son situation um to ignore that the fact that he they missed that we missed him at the shower meals and um which might yes like what you do okay so look when it comes to teenagers and and shabbos meals here's the general rule of thumb and and you know it's it's we're painting with the broad brush there are a lot of asterisks that go into this more asterisk like an invert for a car ad you know it's like you know 18 a month and then it's like half the page is small print so i have to page a small print but the large print is like this you never want to call a person especially a teenager out on anything that they're doing because that they already know they're doing is wrong meaning if you tell someone to do something that they know they should already do it's called nagging and that gets us nowhere with his spouse child friend co-worker doesn't make a

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