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Deficiencies That Warrant Interfering With a Shidduch - Chofetz Chaim Yomi Senarios 6 {Day 117}

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Rabbi Daniel Glatstein

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progress. >> Okay. So, we're continuing the the third section the scenarios were up to where the had told us that if you're aware that one side of has awesome deficiencies, you have to reveal it. But we have not yet identified what exactly are awesome deficiencies says. Now, let's return to discuss what we permitted in the beginning of If the groom has awesome deficiencies, let's say the is a physical ailment and the mother, the parents of the kind of internal illness that people don't know about. Let's say the has some kind of uh terminal illness or the has some kind of he's missing an internal organ that will will shorten his lifespan. You have to say you have no choice. You have to say again, if you're the person's doctor, it's not clear what the hak is because you're jeopardizing your job. But if you're just someone who knows, you have to say you have to make sure that you fulfill all the details that we mentioned in reviews here in the and they are you have to you have to know that it's a deficiency. You can't exaggerate your there's another scenario you'll have to reveal at let's say it's heard on the let's say you know the has heresy you have to tell the family and about this we utilize a justosition do not be a tail bearer but on the other hand it says right after don't stand by idly on your friend's blood. But if the is the said he's theel a slam, it's between either him or this and it turns out the bakar cannot learn a gumar without an art scroll. to say why

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  1. 0:00progress. >> Okay. So, we're continuing the the third section the scenarios were up to where…
  2. 1:00the has some kind of uh terminal illness or the has some kind of he's missing…
  3. 2:03deficiency. You can't exaggerate your there's another scenario you'll have to reveal at let's say it's…
  4. 3:07it's their own fault. You know why? The fact that they asked the what do you…
  5. 4:09also the boy, you submit the boy for grading. They have to tell the truth. They…
  6. 5:13inchim and let's see if he could be into and it turns out the boy didn't…
  7. 6:15buy him custom clothing. You have to make sure he's not lying because, you know, he…
  8. 7:15you get what you pay for. You get what you pay for. The same way the…
  9. 8:17and they're hiding it from the guy there is no if you tell the that the…
  10. 9:19mentioned before. You just have to make sure your words will be listened to when it…

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