Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser Inspiring Self Esteem: The Essence of Good Parenting

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Yisroel Roll’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] good evening wonderful members of the baltimore community it's always a pleasure and excuse to be here there should be a lot of simchas in the state a lot of cinches in the city and in cloud israel and narrative israel in the yeshiva nevada nevada shiva there was a custom that went on during the musu cedar and it was an interesting custom the bahrain would see that some of the colo jungalite some of the young men learning in kalel would start to put their head towards the wall they would close their eyes and gently hitting their head against the wall say been a garnish what am i i am nothing and that would help to idea in a person's mind that they should not be about gaiver that they should not be haughty or arrogant so there was a young booker just came to nevada it's the first day there in the yeshiva and he wants to fit in so he sees the younger light going the little guy doesn't know what to do he goes and finds the nearest wall and he starts what's been he's been a garnish all of a sudden one of the guys turns around from the wall and says who do you think you are to go and say what's been been a garnish today's times we don't need to hit the wall we don't need that anybody should start to say to themselves bus benefits been a garnish because there are plenty plenty of people that think they are garnished without ever saying it and without ever

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2. 6:24whole war knock on the door who's here the neighbor hush of a neighbor all of…
3. 12:55all excited let them say it let the child express himself if she wants to express…
4. 19:21have to be able to handle the stresses of everyday life in a very very diplomatic…
5. 25:40yomtov is an expression of joy what happens if a person walks in and they have…
6. 32:06manchester i was there three times i came on behalf of the call and there was…
7. 38:24tell them that they know how to do things that they do know how to do…
8. 44:52that and explain exactly why we are giving different treatment to each other or they're not…
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