Rabbi Zelig Pliskin - The Guide to Life: Anger - The Inner Teacher

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

okay welcome everyone today is class number six in the joy series and today's class is called anger the inner teacher it's title is based on a talmudic statement bishop varim adam nicker you can recognize a person from three different factors and the rhyme in the hebrew hebrew viciso bacoso picasso kiso means one's wallet literally mean wallet but it means they how people into about deal with money whether people feel secure or insecure whether people have are generous or stingy people take it lightly people get very upset over money so it reveals a lot about your personality picoso literally means cup means if you drink a beverage that's intoxicating that makes you drunk how do you speak and act if you're drunk reveals a lot about the personality major difference between people when they get drunk they get violent or whether people like i remember on purim when i was a young child my father's close friend rabbi shirley shanker we visit him in one purim and it sticks in my mind how when he came to his house he was just so overflowing with the obviously throw this flowing overflowing with these positive with joy simple mitzvah and just a wonderful wonderful sense came out and i grew up inner city baltimore and you had a lot of people in the street that were drunk and so people when they drink an alcoholic beverage you reveal a lot of your inner self and the third quality factor that reveals your personality is picasso you get angry what do you say and do when you get angry there's a major difference between

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1. 0:22okay welcome everyone today is class number six in the joy series and today's class is…
2. 4:08we're given the card number five i see myself being the way i wish to be…
3. 7:59there's a husband and wife team that wrote a book called anger kills they have a…
4. 11:39by letting go by expressing that anger by slamming a door by screaming it's release but…
5. 15:56this and i did so many good things to them and that wasn't right of them…
6. 19:37respect it's a tremendous obligation everybody deserves respect we're all creating god's image however if the…
7. 23:18more elevating it is fourth step is speak with mutual respect even in a situation that…
8. 27:31fellow he's not alive now but he was a very interesting fellow he wrote a book…
9. 31:14wake up tomorrow work settle it tomorrow peacefully but keep quiet for now you will if…
10. 34:55and takes a lot of practice because the more frequently we have a pattern the war…

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