Shidduch Series #4: The Goal of Marriage (Ep. 118)

What’s said in this shiur

The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

hi this is deborah lafsky and welcome to the rabbi yolovsky show and whether you're listening with our friends over at or anytime whoever you watch or listen to your podcast it's certainly nice to have you along for the experience um if you uh if you haven't been following and what's one of the great things about a podcast is that you can always go back and listen to the previous ones we are in the middle of doing a series we are in the middle of doing a series on um marriage dating marriage uh all the steps that go into it yeah and um as i mentioned there's not many people giving hyderaja in how to get married once you're married lots of people tell you uh how things are a mess but you know okay so let's get into it and uh we've dealt now with we're only talking we've dealt now with we're only talking about relationships where we're talking about getting married we're not talking about boy girl relationships were you just friends we're not talking about uh anything like that we're talking only about a person wants to get married and this is a very important point very important point that not everybody appreciates when we're starting the process we're saying i want to get married sometimes people aren't ready to get married they got to be honest yeah

Jump to a moment

1. 0:00hi this is deborah lafsky and welcome to the rabbi yolovsky show and whether you're listening…
2. 5:43all the guys look at him forgive must have gone over very well on a date…
3. 10:33the way that you make decisions is first you need definitions first you have to define…
4. 15:14if i have a definition how do i know if it was a successful shepherd tone…
5. 20:00do you five-ish danish thank mary o'reilly what are you doing here you know i said…
6. 24:38from the goal of what i want in a marriage and part of that is because…
7. 29:18when i first moved to arizona i remember there was something i was doing i remember…
8. 33:58and that's why when [Music] when mela built the base of mikdash he decorated it with…
9. 38:45she's smart you know and the mother killed your father-in-law so you don't have to worry…
10. 43:26idea what i'm doing i have no degree no but sometimes people say to me listen…

Every second of this shiur plays inside Lehallel — a filtered YouTube library of Torah, music and shiurim. No ads, no comments, no autoplay.