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The Art of Creating a Happy Family Environment - Rabbi Zamir Cohen in English (AI)

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Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky

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Hello and good evening. Today we will reflect on the guidance of King Solomon, the wisest of men, regarding both the material and spiritual aspects of family life through his parables and their meanings. As is often the case in the parable, he offers good true advice that relates to everyday life financially and materially. And in the underlying meaning, he speaks of a higher more spiritual dimension. Proverbs 12:29, "He who destroys his house will inherit the wind, but the one who brings up a wise heart will have a servant." In the simple meaning of the verse, a person who destroys his house, who damages his home and possessions, will inherit the wind, ultimately having nothing left, just like wind. Inherit refers to an inheritance, something that should be passed down. This person spends recklessly, doesn't know how to save or might even sell off inherited property. Gradually the financial situation deteriorates. But the person does not act wisely and cannot foresee the future. The sage is asked, "Who is wise?" The one who sees the future. Meaning, what is the future? It is like a pregnancy. Even though you cannot see the baby yet, you know it is coming. A wise person understands that what is happening now might seem in a certain pattern, but he can foresee the consequences. Just like knowing that a child is in the womb and will be born.

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  1. 0:00Hello and good evening. Today we will reflect on the guidance of King Solomon, the wisest
  2. 3:43verse, the servant who brings wisdom to the heart will be his. He says that this
  3. 7:56entangled? After all, money is just a tool, not the goal. The goal is to live
  4. 12:16talks to them, they look at her like a stranger. They knew the nannies who took
  5. 16:08country so he can report how they would defeat the country. The tourist on the other
  6. 20:18just hit his sibling. But the father remains calm and composed. He reconciles everyone, smiles at
  7. 24:29atmosphere, the conversations, and after that, everyone singing songs together that everyone loves. If there's a
  8. 28:16say how wonderful it is that someone opened a charity or did a kind deed. When
  9. 32:31and inherit the wind. The result can be seen later in adolescence and in marriages in
  10. 36:53son. If he says kadesh for me, it will help me. Rabbi Akiva asked where the

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