How to Become a Master: 3 Steps to Real Greatness

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dov Ber Weisman’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

That's it. >> All right. So, we're talking about how to be a master. A master. And we said really is is three things. What are the three things? How do we define a master? How do we define success? How do we what are your goals in life? What does it mean to be a great person? Three things. Go. >> Okay. Spirituality. >> Gratitude. >> I'm going to say it last time and I'm going to ask you tomorrow morning as well. If you don't get this answer, I basically want to jump onto your bed at 2:00 in the morning and wake you up and say, "WHAT ARE THE THREE THINGS?" AND YOU GOT TO GO, "AH, IMPROVE YOUR CHARACTER TRAITS. Impact the world spirituality. Improve your character traits. Impact the world spirituality. We're going to wake you up in the middle of the night and you're going to be like, I GO, WHAT ARE THEY?" Improve your character traits. Improve the world. Spirituality. Positively influence the world around you. Bam. So, now we're talking about how to improve your character traits. >> [snorts] >> So, first we said you have to focus on your good ones first. Does everyone here have a list of five to 10 things they like about themselves? If you're not doing the homework, you will not get the

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1. 0:00That's it. >> All right. So, we're talking about how to be a master. A master.…
2. 2:39is, write down the areas in your character that could do with some refinement. So now…
3. 5:22turn my bike and I fell off my bike and smashed my other ankle. was cool.…
4. 8:02angry. That's because as we explained before, emotions, feelings are energy, emotion, they are physical things.…
5. 11:09in the moment the frustration come and you got to be prepared for it. And you…
6. 13:42dealing with thoughts and emotions are emotions need to be validated. If you say, "I really…
7. 16:18useful because hopefully you can grow but then just for the rest of your life I…
8. 19:23should have. She could have. Those are buses that you know are going to Tan. They're…
9. 21:57goodness, that was weird. It actually worked. And then you'll go back to your negative thinking…
10. 24:42for emotions. The bus analogy is thoughts. Don't get them mixed up. Don't get them mixed.…

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