Living With Emunah (Part 163): You Can't Achieve Forgiveness Without Talking About the Relationship

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The opening of this shiur, in Living with Emunah - Rabbi Efrem Goldberg’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

good morning bokertov welcome back to our living with a moon series our weekly sheer slash support group to remind ourselves what really matters what's really important what's really true namely that there's a hashem in this world that he's in our lives and that he loves us i saw a quote yesterday from moshe weinberger who said isn't it the most amazing thing in the world that the same one who judges us is also madly in love with us that it's our father turns out we're coming before the judge this weekend it's rosh hashanah says it's rosh hashanah says imagine you're summoned to court god forbid some violation you need to appear before a judge you're shaking you're trembling you're worried you're prepared and when you walk into the courtroom and look up who is it on the bench none other than your father now obviously in a human court that would never go he has to accuse himself there's an inherent bias and yet in our case we come before the judge and we should have that mentality we should have that imagery we should be trying to grow in that way but we look up and who is it standing on the bench it's none other than

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1. 0:02good morning bokertov welcome back to our living with a moon series our weekly sheer slash…
2. 4:08the choice i'm about to make the thing i'm about to say the thing i'm about…
3. 7:13he says to his father i thought you told me if i use all my strength…
4. 10:18is our subconscious ability to divide or distinguish or segregate or retreat from an awareness or…
5. 13:25because as we reflect and think about the mistakes we've made we need to own up…
6. 16:29could i'm sorry i didn't give away stucco generously as you asked me to i'm sorry…
7. 19:33connection and that i'm not thinking about you all the time and that our marriage is…
8. 22:38ask for forgiveness make up for it beg a tone or excuse me dry throat not…
9. 25:44so in that moment when you're tempted we have to feel i'm not alone a person…
10. 28:46101 101 do you say you're sorry what's your plan in the future when you made…

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