Rabbi Binyamin Yuhanan - Marriage - Communication Skills Part 1

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Binyamin Yuhanan’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

[Music] okay welcome everyone thank you for joining today we are learning about proper communication and even though this class is and even though this class is titled marriage communication the skills that we're going to learn are important in all your interpersonal relationships and to today's class is one of the most important classes that you will hear and therefore pay attention and take notes and try to practice what you learn this these lessons are extremely important and especially for a husband husband and a wife to know now we know that people get married they hope to have happy marriage shalom bite peace at home not too many people have an exact plan how they gonna do it some people say i'll just swing it my parents did it my brother my sister are doing it are doing it some are scared and they say i look around myself and majority of couples i see are not happy they're either divorced or if not they're not divorced yet they're unhappily married and they're scared how will i ever have a happy marriage if everyone around me is not happy and those that were courageous and got married they're saying this is hyped up they're saying this is hyped up this is not what i signed up for why is it that we don't have love and happiness in the relationship that i was dreaming about and uh one of the main reasons is because the couple don't have proper skills of communication and today we're going to address some of the most important skills to have and that

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1. 0:00[Music] okay welcome everyone thank you for joining today we are learning about proper communication and…
2. 6:06no you have to express it but how can i express it if it's gonna hurt…
3. 12:19is false what comes out is exaggeration what comes out is that you are winding yourself…
4. 18:41yes very good um there is another possibility if a person is hostile towards you you…
5. 24:57were not when i speak to another human being i have to realize that within that…
6. 31:10when they're not stressed when they're not tired when they're not hungry if you see that…
7. 37:28it's very difficult both to express your feelings of hurt and it's even more difficult to…
8. 43:39is upset it doesn't help to say i'm sorry first you have to admit to yourself…
9. 49:54proper apology is acknowledgement of your behavior and the hurt that it caused regret and either…
10. 56:11the abuser and i'm not talking about a real abuser i'm just using this term the…

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