Rabbi, Should I Marry Him? (Shidduch Series #10) (Ep. 124)

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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

I would do. I would just sit here and and and this stuff. But as far as I'm concerned, I'm sitting here talking to myself and uh you know, people listening in. But I just had uh some uh young ladies over my house from a seminary. They all live in Flatbush. And they say that they all watch the podcast. Everyone they know watches the podcast. And they said you gave some recipe before Yom Tov and all Flatbush made it. No, I'm sure that's an exaggeration. But the fact that anybody was spending their Yom Tov preparations making one of my mother's soups, nothing nothing here is my own stuff, so maybe when we finish this uh series, we'll we'll we'll throw in a few more recipes that maybe we haven't given yet. Um uh my producer Michoel told me that somebody wanted a collection of all the recipes that I mentioned, and he did a search and uh he did for recipes, but he couldn't find them all and he finally realized you have to search under it's easy stupid. YOU KNOW WHY? BECAUSE IT IS. ANYWAY, so okay, you went out on one day, two days, three days, five days, 10 days, 15 days, 100 days, 2 million days. I don't know how many days you went out on. But you're sure now that this is the one and once again a very difficult decision to make. Difficult decision. Yeah? You want to get married and the other person wants to get married. That's up front. That commitment is there before we

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1. 1:02I would do. I would just sit here and and and this stuff. But as far…
2. 7:21You're like, "Whoa!" Yeah, I need a little time to catch up to this. Very often…
3. 13:46rather large city, and everybody loved him, and they did a great job, and but he…
4. 19:43And they said, "Rabbi, our parting gift." He says, "What do you mean?" He says, "Listen,…
5. 26:02both sensed that we were ready and I asked her to marry me and she said…
6. 31:53Somebody once said to me, "And also, after you pay the caterer, that's all you're going…
7. 38:23The wedding ring is not supposed to have a diamond on it. Not supposed to have…
8. 44:11spend on it?" So, he told him. He says, "I'd rather have it in the farm."…
9. 50:45WHEN YOU GO TO A CHAZZAN and you see everybody watching it on the little camera…
10. 56:30SO, SOME PEOPLE DON'T TALK, SOME PEOPLE DON'T SEE EACH OTHER, you know. And then you…

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