Short daily reinforcement!!! Don't be careful! You will gain life - an amazing story by Rabbi Alo...

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We are constantly living in interaction , we are in friction with people. It happens that people don't pay attention or do pay attention and they hurt us. And sometimes it stings, it's a public humiliation. A person humiliates me in front of a crowd, I felt ashamed. That face was red, then it turned white. That is what the Gemara says in the West; what were they most careful about ? The Land of Israel was west of Babylon, so they would ask in the West, in the Land of Israel, what were they most careful about? Which commandment? The Gemara says: Be careful with* hachvar appa*, that the face does not turn white, not to whiten it. The face of the other, as we see, the blood leaves the face, it arrives at a paleness; because he was embarrassed, all the life drains from a person's face. A person comes along, having gone through such humiliation, Suddenly you tell him: Listen, forgive him. There was a Jew who would collect money all week and on Thursday buy chickens, cook them, and on Friday give them to needy families, to the humble, who are ashamed to ask. He knocks on the door, that's their portion. These have 15 children, he gives them five or six cooked chickens. He knows, he had a list. Every week he knows, he arrives

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1. 0:01We are constantly living in interaction , we are in friction with people. It happens that…
2. 0:31Babylon, so they would ask in the West, in the Land of Israel, what were they…
3. 1:02tell him: Listen, forgive him. There was a Jew who would collect money all week and…
4. 1:32at the butcher shop, says to him: How many chickens today? Give me 100, give me…
5. 2:02what do you want? He said: There are the poor, they have nothing to eat, I…
6. 2:32approached him and said: That was for me, what about the poor? They didn't get a…
7. 3:03not, I am in hell, you are a true righteous man. He took out 1000 shekels…
8. 3:34holy Ohr HaChaim says: And whoever does not hold a grudge—Lightens the burden of the Shechinah.…
9. 4:06can say they deserve it? Are we perfect ? Perfect? No. We perform commandments. Can you…
10. 4:38moment in the day we haven't neglected Torah; it is forbidden to neglect Torah for even…

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