Rabbi Benzion Shafier | 10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make (Part 2) | CHAZAQ

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1. 0:01[Music] want to thank everyone for joining us tonight this very special event I think it…
2. 6:17as a partner because then when the partnership ends it's very ugly why because listen two…
3. 12:30love her as himself her is much simpler why all she has to do is treat…
4. 18:39pillar of a successful marriage learning to live together and to learn this part we're going…
5. 24:49help them your job is to support them your job is to be with them okay…
6. 30:59reality flash number two the person that will hurt you more deeply than you've ever been…
7. 37:07to read the book for the next most important words in your marriage are the words…
8. 43:17responsible I always feel cared for you're so good with the kids you are the most…
9. 49:24support each other number three you're not your spouse's teacher and number four friends are tolerant…
10. 55:38the time I don't need the the extra I don't need it it doesn't help it…

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