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The opening of this shiur, in Rabbi Shais Taub’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.

that's how we start is we do it for them and then we start to do it with them and then they start to do it with us and then they finally do it on their own it's a process somebody asked me earlier if I'll do q a should I yeah I took it before you made that up yeah that's right that's a good by the way the entire hinook today and everything really is because what's the the reality that that describes in Vietnam is that all pressure from now on has to be self-induced the gullus isn't going to smush us and we shouldn't step in and do it to anyone else and smush them the way the Gullah smushed us today everyone has to push himself that's viate anything else complaints all right I'll go like this yeah okay how do we Ave was that what your word weave cabalis oil into this approach well here's the beauty we don't have to weave Kabbalah cell into the approach it's already right there okay but okay let me bring it out let me explain it you have to know what Cabela's oil really is Kabbalah cell is one of those weaponized words that people in Authority use quite often when they're afraid they feel threatened so they say have some Kabbalah soil which really means they're trying to shut you down and make you be less than Kabbalah soil is to make you be more than the Reba explained it's actually a poor fabren tough shinyud tests what true cabalis oil is the never said some people think that sehal and Cabela's oil are mutually

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1. 0:00that's how we start is we do it for them and then we start to do…
2. 1:35okay how do we Ave was that what your word weave cabalis oil into this approach…
3. 3:07whatever you want no that's not submitting yourself that's submitting Part of Yourself your action I'll…
4. 4:42them to that truest desire all parts meaning not only your will and your beliefs but…
5. 6:14later after you've explained it to me you can invoke that principle and you could say…
6. 8:17if the circle doesn't understand so we have to work on it the process these are…
7. 9:51oh right but that itself is an explanation it's a rational explanation and that's our job…
8. 11:33what like what do you say so the question was you want your two-year-old daughter to…
9. 13:16so laughs it's our job not to tell our children to do things that they're not…
10. 14:46bother her right that's what we really want okay are you willing to give it time…

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