Getting it ready…
Rabbis discuss a vital safety tool for children: a secret code word to signal discomfort or unsafe feelings.
Read the notes on this shiur: outline, sources, and more from Amudim →
Know someone who would love this shiur?
Ask this shiur
Ask in your own words — the answer is the exact moment this shiur speaks to it.
What’s said in this shiur
The opening of this shiur, in Amudim’s own words — taken from the captions, so names and Hebrew terms may be approximate.
We could give that. It's It's not a bad practice for parents to to have like a code word mean but which means I'm feeling uncomfortable. You know, to tell your children that if you use this word you know, if you use this whatever word you make up >> us an example of one of those? >> that I'm not feeling safe right now. And and and >> Banana split. No, you could say uh Exactly. Exactly. Ice cream. No, say something. Use a word that means
Jump to a moment
- 0:00We could give that. It's It's not a bad practice for parents to to have like…
- 0:30No, say something. Use a word that means that I'm just not feeling uncomfortable because there's…
- 1:01over I'm sitting at the table, you can just pull my sleeve and and that'll mean…
Every second of this shiur plays inside Lehallel — a filtered YouTube library of Torah, music and shiurim. No ads, no comments, no autoplay.
More from Amudim
The Empathy that make us PILLARSAmudim · 1:15Do I have to?Amudim · 2:37Healing Through Giving | Full SegmentAmudim · 33:53More Than a Number: Body Image, Shidduchim, and the Girls Caught in BetweenAmudim · 28:03We want our daughters to feel good about themselves. But what happens on the days they don’t like whAmudim · 0:49Born to Heal | Full SegmentAmudim · 53:58When someone needs us, can we hear them through everything else we’re doing?Amudim · 2:26Faith, Family, and Leadership | Full SegmentAmudim · 1:19:44
Get the week’s best, by email
One email a week — a handful of shiurim and music. No account needed.
Know a family who would use this? Give a Lehallel membership.