The Keys to Successful Dating & Marriage - Rabbi Alon Anava

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good evening everybody we want to talk about a very uh very important subject is because unfortunately in our generation there's so many people who are still looking for their for their soulmate to the other half and just a few months ago we had a beautiful big purim event and during the event i stood up and i started giving bajo to everybody in the in the room and after i finished i told my wife look at that besides two people everybody here is single there were two people who were married and then everybody else in the event was all singles older you should get married you should get married somebody stopped saying you should get married i said all of you should just get married so this situation is not how it should be this is not okay that so many people are struggling to find their other half but unfortunately the reality is that many people find it very very hard to find their other half now comes another problem once they really find it him or her then how do you maintain a good marriage there are many different problems there's a lot more to talk about but tonight we want to concentrate about one channel one way how one can better their opportunities and focus on what they need to do and you know some of the lectures they come off very easy and very soft and sometimes when you need to get something done you need to be a little bit more harsh and a little bit more straightforward so please don't take anything personal that

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1. 0:00good evening everybody we want to talk about a very uh very important subject is because…
2. 5:49it you're not going to be successful then i'm deceiving that person so first we want…
3. 12:41so i need to have a certain path in my life and to know what my…
4. 18:35that doesn't mean you're stuck with the stem mission their whole life could be that from…
5. 24:48but they were laughing at me that i that i was losing hair and and and…
6. 30:30a huge part in in this world but when i'm only thinking of myself then i'm…
7. 36:54it was a speaker but nevertheless i had a lot of time to think and that's…
8. 42:48ponytail she's going to be working you know going to work with high heels and makeup…
9. 49:15somebody to get married is to stop thinking of yourself that's why i started the lecture…
10. 55:35other half and the in the best way possible unfortunately we we suffer from this this…

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