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The Spiritual Origin of Marital Therapy

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Rabbi YY Jacobson

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so welcome everybody and thank you so much for gracing us this thursday morning pepe is the 25th of schwartz 5782 january 27th 2022 i want to dedicate this class and loving memory in layla nishmas of my dear beloved grandmother who's the art site is today her name was tybul lipscore luba alta taiba pass rav ezreal shalom khayim barak the wife of my grandfather bianca lipskis dedicated by children grandchildren and great-grandchildren this is my mother's mother who's uh mrs taiba lipscomb's the art set is today if you watched my hanukkah clips i sent out a clip about her dancing at weddings you may have remembered the story and may her righteousness and light continue to serve as an eternal source of light and inspiration and blessing for all of her mushbacher entire family all of us and all of the jewish people thank you so i hope today we will finish the mimer um the title is it's not the trauma or the sin it's the shame that destroys you are a borrower but the owner never left you and we took one of the halacha it's one of the laws of partisan the laws of the borrower which has a very nuanced and strange apparently strange halacha about it the law of the borrower and actually explained not just the legal significance but the spiritual significance and it shows you how one technical law and aparsha really contains within it the dna of the whole terror and contains within it a life transforming paradigm that elevates and enhances a person's life so i would just suggest it i got an email this morning from a teacher he's a sixth grade teacher and he teaches this gemara because the boys in sixth grade start learning gemara fifth grade sixth grade and these are the pieces of gemara that

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